Anchored in Christ

What Is Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is a pattern of behaviors used by one person to gain or maintain power and control over another in an intimate or family relationship.
It is not just physical abuse.

Domestic violence can include:

• Physical harm

• Emotional or psychological abuse

• Financial control

• Sexual coercion

• Spiritual or religious abuse

• Isolation from family and friends

Understanding Domestic Violence

Domestic violence occurs when one person in a relationship uses power and control to dominate another. It can happen between spouses, partners, family members, or caregivers—and it affects people of all ages, backgrounds, and faiths.

Abuse is not always visible. Many survivors experience harm that leaves no physical marks but deeply impacts emotional, spiritual, and mental well-being.

Domestic violence is never the victim’s fault.

Types of Domestic Violence

Domestic violence can include:

• Physical Abuse
  Hitting, pushing, choking, restraining, or any form of physical harm.

• Emotional & Psychological Abuse
  Threats, intimidation, humiliation, manipulation, gaslighting, or isolation.

• Verbal Abuse
  Constant criticism, insults, yelling, or degrading language.

• Sexual Abuse
  Any sexual activity without consent, including coercion within marriage or relationships.

• Financial Abuse
  Controlling money, preventing employment, taking earnings, or creating financial dependency.

• Spiritual Abuse
  Using faith, scripture, or religious beliefs to control, shame, silence, or justify abuse.

Faith Should Never Be Used to Harm

Spiritual abuse occurs when religion or faith is misused to control or silence someone. This may look like:

• Being told abuse must be endured to be “faithful”

• Scripture used to excuse violence or control

• Fear of judgment, shame, or rejection from a faith community

• Being discouraged from seeking help or safety

At Anchor in Christ, we affirm that God does not support abuse. Faith should bring healing, not harm.

Why Awareness Matters

Many survivors do not recognize abuse right away—or feel unable to speak up due to fear, stigma, finances, or faith-based pressure.

By educating our community, we help:

• Break cycles of abuse

• Reduce isolation and shame

• Connect survivors to safe, supportive resources

You Are Not Alone

If you or someone you know may be experiencing domestic violence, help is available. There is hope, support, and a path forward.

Anchor in Christ is here to listen, support, and connect you to trusted resources—without judgment.